Holding space
I had a zoom call with a guy about a month ago, he was a great fit for a program that I sell but it was obvious to see that he was in a place where he was creating chaos in his own life. The program would have been a great fit for him but […]
Overthinking the think about it
Dealing with a Sticky think about it? could I have helped you out a bind next week with this?: Closer :Ok you think this could be the answer for you ? Yeah, I think it could work. I think it could. Closer :Okay, so do you want to go from here? Oh, I need to […]
Be vulnerable to make ground
This week I have been trialling a tenacity training with part of the team. The premise behind it is to help the team become more tenacious and thick skinned by really understanding the reason why we shy away from confrontation and how we can remain in challenging situations when its ethically right to do so […]
So I had this thought about how we have it all upside down……
With Remembrance Day this week, I try to take stock of things in such a fast paced world. It sometimes seems to me that we give so much credence to ethereal concepts, regulations, KPIs, the stock market, our bank account…. generally things we can’t touch. Yet the things we can touch , the things close […]
I may be onto something
I think I may be on to something…. In the past I have successfully worked with clients using NLP to work with a process called parts integration. It’s a way of removing mental blocks that sometimes prevent us from taking action. NLP professionals talk about us having many parts that make us a whole and […]
Useful imagination
I’m writing this blog today from the airport. In 2017 I was sitting in Cardiff airport in Wales making the trip back to Belfast having spent some time back in my home country to re-energise and un-lose myself after some pretty substantial burnout having run gyms for 4 years previously with barely a day off. […]
A note on sleep
18 months ago I had done some great mindset work with an NLP coach, and made some great breakthroughs. The day the training finished I was at the gym and I got weird. I walked out of the gym , leaving my gym bag there as if my memory had just left me… The days […]
TIME for a few reframes
Hi guys So here are some more Gucci reframes that I am putting together for a specific offer. They have a lot of cross over into many different offers as they are based around helping people through a mindset blocker on TIME … enjoy them…but more importantly enjoy your TIME on the weekend with those […]
feel the fear rebuttals
This is part of a objection handling matrix I’m putting together. This contains rebuttals to fear that should give you opportunities to loop when you have ascertained the issue for not moving forward is not logistical … Have a great weekend
Contentment
So this is a more esoteric blog. Going back about 18 months ago, I would say that I wasn’t really happy so I made some changes. Now most people when you talk to them, they just want to be happy, which is fine. But I’d like to just narrow that down a little bit. Because […]